This comment in response to Mr Anderson’s statement combined with what was perhaps his observation, “wait to have sex until marriage”–and simultaneously “wait until you’re, oh, about 25 or 35 to get married.” I may be wrong but I think you followed that up with a justification, “Studies show that people who remain virgins until their late 20′s are actually worse off than those who satisfy their desires extra-maritally at an earlier age.” Within that justification is the very problem that I personally have experienced and I would imagine that every other male struggling with sexual purity has experienced – “[my] desire.” As I have tried to teach my children, God does know my desires and has always provided for me – exactly when I needed them. Unfortunately, I’m not always willing to wait on Him to provide thereby giving into my sinful desires. The problem is that I tend to put my desires in front of an omniscient, omnipotent, and sovereign God. 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 clearly indicates I am headed toward a fatal choice if I don’t change my desire and seek first the Kingdom of God.